Was reading my comments then suddenly saw I kenna tagged by Jean.  I have to say that her tag somehow came at a pretty appropriate time.  Hmmmmm……

***** Instructions *****

1. If you are given a choice, SAHM or FTWM? Give at least 3 reasons.
2. Include your name in the thread below.
3. Tag 3 person,

I want to be a Stay at Home Mom (SAHM) because:

1. I want to be able to see my kids grow up before my very eyes because this only comes once and once they are all grown up, this will remain in my heart as a memory forever.

2. When you are not pressured and pressed for time, you tend to be more tolerant and exhibit patience with the kids.  Many a times, we flare up infront of our kids, just because we are tired and pek chek.

3. I feel bad asking my aged parents and parents in law look after my kids, even if it’s just for half a day because it’s not an easy task looking after 2 kids.

4. I get to make sure my kids are well taken care and well fed everyday.  Nowadays, I even have the time to make tonic for the kids to build their immune system.

I want to be a Full Time Working Mom (FTWM) because:

1. Having extra income is a plus

2. Spending some time at work at away from the kids keeps one’s sanity.  Then absence makes your heart fonder.

3. At least you get to chat with colleagues at work.

My ultimate decision???  It’s still a 50% – 50% battle within my heart.  So much so I want the best for my Rays, I would like to work too…..headache right?  But come to seriously think about it, SAHM takes the cake at 70% vs FTWM at 30%.

***** List *****

1. Immomsdaughter prefers to be a SAHM.
2. Miche prefers to be a SAHM.
3. Msau prefers to be a PTWM.
4. Everydayhealy prefers to be a SAHM.
5. Jazzmint prefers FTWM.
6. Cheryl prefers to be FTWM but will consider SAHM.
7. Mom of Cairo prefers to be PTWM.
8. Jean’s Diary prefers to be a SAHM.
9. My Lovely Rays prefers to be a SAHM.

Think this tag is going to end here, havent’ been actively reading blogs (so sorry girls and boys) so am not sure who’s been tagged already but looking at the list, think it’s been circulating around long enough for all.